I talk too much. So I’m not the best at hearing others. It’s not because I don’t care. It’s because I always seem to go first, and time always seems to run out before it’s their go. And because I’m wary of asking personal questions…and don’t fully understand what “personal” means to other people.

In spite of talking so much, or, perhaps because of it, I prefer written communication. Writing takes more time and effort than talking, so I think a little more about what I say. Less bullshit to fill empty space. But it’s also because the other person can say their piece without my getting excited and interrupting. And because I can take time to consider their words. And, so, respond more thoughtfully.

I used to love writing letters. I think it’s time I got back into it.